Is the phrase “use someone” sometimes good and sometimes bad? [on hold]

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I don't really know if this is the right place to ask this, but I am sure someone will know. When you say "someone used you", isn't that bad? But, when you say "I could use someone", isn't that good? What makes the difference? Thanks!
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I don't really know if this is the right place to ask this, but I am sure someone will know. When you say "someone used you", isn't that bad? But, when you say "I could use someone", isn't that good? What makes the difference? Thanks!
difference-in-meaning
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put on hold as too broad by TrevorD, Cascabel, Jason Bassford, JJJ, lbf 2 days ago
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Hello, Aidan, and welcome to EL&U. Your question is a little broad, and depends on context, as you seem to be aware of. There are all kinds of possibilities here...could you please narrow it down?
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Bill Withers seems to have had mixed feelings on this subject.
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I don't really know if this is the right place to ask this, but I am sure someone will know. When you say "someone used you", isn't that bad? But, when you say "I could use someone", isn't that good? What makes the difference? Thanks!
difference-in-meaning
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I don't really know if this is the right place to ask this, but I am sure someone will know. When you say "someone used you", isn't that bad? But, when you say "I could use someone", isn't that good? What makes the difference? Thanks!
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Hello, Aidan, and welcome to EL&U. Your question is a little broad, and depends on context, as you seem to be aware of. There are all kinds of possibilities here...could you please narrow it down?
– Cascabel
Apr 5 at 23:29
Bill Withers seems to have had mixed feelings on this subject.
– Sven Yargs
Apr 6 at 0:52
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Hello, Aidan, and welcome to EL&U. Your question is a little broad, and depends on context, as you seem to be aware of. There are all kinds of possibilities here...could you please narrow it down?
– Cascabel
Apr 5 at 23:29
Bill Withers seems to have had mixed feelings on this subject.
– Sven Yargs
Apr 6 at 0:52
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Hello, Aidan, and welcome to EL&U. Your question is a little broad, and depends on context, as you seem to be aware of. There are all kinds of possibilities here...could you please narrow it down?
– Cascabel
Apr 5 at 23:29
Hello, Aidan, and welcome to EL&U. Your question is a little broad, and depends on context, as you seem to be aware of. There are all kinds of possibilities here...could you please narrow it down?
– Cascabel
Apr 5 at 23:29
Bill Withers seems to have had mixed feelings on this subject.
– Sven Yargs
Apr 6 at 0:52
Bill Withers seems to have had mixed feelings on this subject.
– Sven Yargs
Apr 6 at 0:52
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The difference is in the context. Using can refer to exploiting for one's own advantage, as in "someone used you for your money." The second meaning you refer to is benefiting from, as in "I could use someone to talk to."
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The difference is in the context. Using can refer to exploiting for one's own advantage, as in "someone used you for your money." The second meaning you refer to is benefiting from, as in "I could use someone to talk to."
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Hello Bento, welcome to EL&U. Your answer is succinct and nicely argued and you just beat me to it! I've just given you your first upvote.
– BoldBen
Apr 6 at 1:01
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The difference is in the context. Using can refer to exploiting for one's own advantage, as in "someone used you for your money." The second meaning you refer to is benefiting from, as in "I could use someone to talk to."
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Hello Bento, welcome to EL&U. Your answer is succinct and nicely argued and you just beat me to it! I've just given you your first upvote.
– BoldBen
Apr 6 at 1:01
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The difference is in the context. Using can refer to exploiting for one's own advantage, as in "someone used you for your money." The second meaning you refer to is benefiting from, as in "I could use someone to talk to."
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The difference is in the context. Using can refer to exploiting for one's own advantage, as in "someone used you for your money." The second meaning you refer to is benefiting from, as in "I could use someone to talk to."
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Hello Bento, welcome to EL&U. Your answer is succinct and nicely argued and you just beat me to it! I've just given you your first upvote.
– BoldBen
Apr 6 at 1:01
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Hello Bento, welcome to EL&U. Your answer is succinct and nicely argued and you just beat me to it! I've just given you your first upvote.
– BoldBen
Apr 6 at 1:01
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Hello Bento, welcome to EL&U. Your answer is succinct and nicely argued and you just beat me to it! I've just given you your first upvote.
– BoldBen
Apr 6 at 1:01
Hello Bento, welcome to EL&U. Your answer is succinct and nicely argued and you just beat me to it! I've just given you your first upvote.
– BoldBen
Apr 6 at 1:01
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Hello, Aidan, and welcome to EL&U. Your question is a little broad, and depends on context, as you seem to be aware of. There are all kinds of possibilities here...could you please narrow it down?
– Cascabel
Apr 5 at 23:29
Bill Withers seems to have had mixed feelings on this subject.
– Sven Yargs
Apr 6 at 0:52