Is “take a leak” considered only masculine or is it okay if women use it too?





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And if it can also be used by women, I still feel vulgar using it.










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    We "leak", too. But we only use the expression among those who won't be judgmental.
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    It's a hair vulgar in any context.
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    Why the downvote? IMHO this is a reasonably well-phrased question even if the topic is nothing I'd ask Miss Manners about. Shouldn't we be able to talk about all kinds of phrases? Or did I miss something?
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    Adapting from sweat, perspire, glow, horses piss, and men take a leak, but ladies only powder their noses.
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    Usually I go for a pee. And sometimes I need to wee. I never leak... but if I laugh hard, I'd say "I've wet myself"
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And if it can also be used by women, I still feel vulgar using it.










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    We "leak", too. But we only use the expression among those who won't be judgmental.
    – user98990
    Mar 3 '15 at 12:52






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    It's a hair vulgar in any context.
    – Hot Licks
    Mar 3 '15 at 13:08






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    Why the downvote? IMHO this is a reasonably well-phrased question even if the topic is nothing I'd ask Miss Manners about. Shouldn't we be able to talk about all kinds of phrases? Or did I miss something?
    – Stephie
    Mar 3 '15 at 14:04






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    Adapting from sweat, perspire, glow, horses piss, and men take a leak, but ladies only powder their noses.
    – FumbleFingers
    Mar 3 '15 at 15:56








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    Usually I go for a pee. And sometimes I need to wee. I never leak... but if I laugh hard, I'd say "I've wet myself"
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    Mar 4 '15 at 20:00













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    We "leak", too. But we only use the expression among those who won't be judgmental.
    – user98990
    Mar 3 '15 at 12:52






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    It's a hair vulgar in any context.
    – Hot Licks
    Mar 3 '15 at 13:08






  • 1




    Why the downvote? IMHO this is a reasonably well-phrased question even if the topic is nothing I'd ask Miss Manners about. Shouldn't we be able to talk about all kinds of phrases? Or did I miss something?
    – Stephie
    Mar 3 '15 at 14:04






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    Adapting from sweat, perspire, glow, horses piss, and men take a leak, but ladies only powder their noses.
    – FumbleFingers
    Mar 3 '15 at 15:56








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    Usually I go for a pee. And sometimes I need to wee. I never leak... but if I laugh hard, I'd say "I've wet myself"
    – Mari-Lou A
    Mar 4 '15 at 20:00














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    We "leak", too. But we only use the expression among those who won't be judgmental.
    – user98990
    Mar 3 '15 at 12:52






  • 3




    It's a hair vulgar in any context.
    – Hot Licks
    Mar 3 '15 at 13:08






  • 1




    Why the downvote? IMHO this is a reasonably well-phrased question even if the topic is nothing I'd ask Miss Manners about. Shouldn't we be able to talk about all kinds of phrases? Or did I miss something?
    – Stephie
    Mar 3 '15 at 14:04






  • 5




    Adapting from sweat, perspire, glow, horses piss, and men take a leak, but ladies only powder their noses.
    – FumbleFingers
    Mar 3 '15 at 15:56








  • 1




    Usually I go for a pee. And sometimes I need to wee. I never leak... but if I laugh hard, I'd say "I've wet myself"
    – Mari-Lou A
    Mar 4 '15 at 20:00








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We "leak", too. But we only use the expression among those who won't be judgmental.
– user98990
Mar 3 '15 at 12:52




We "leak", too. But we only use the expression among those who won't be judgmental.
– user98990
Mar 3 '15 at 12:52




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It's a hair vulgar in any context.
– Hot Licks
Mar 3 '15 at 13:08




It's a hair vulgar in any context.
– Hot Licks
Mar 3 '15 at 13:08




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Why the downvote? IMHO this is a reasonably well-phrased question even if the topic is nothing I'd ask Miss Manners about. Shouldn't we be able to talk about all kinds of phrases? Or did I miss something?
– Stephie
Mar 3 '15 at 14:04




Why the downvote? IMHO this is a reasonably well-phrased question even if the topic is nothing I'd ask Miss Manners about. Shouldn't we be able to talk about all kinds of phrases? Or did I miss something?
– Stephie
Mar 3 '15 at 14:04




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Adapting from sweat, perspire, glow, horses piss, and men take a leak, but ladies only powder their noses.
– FumbleFingers
Mar 3 '15 at 15:56






Adapting from sweat, perspire, glow, horses piss, and men take a leak, but ladies only powder their noses.
– FumbleFingers
Mar 3 '15 at 15:56






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Usually I go for a pee. And sometimes I need to wee. I never leak... but if I laugh hard, I'd say "I've wet myself"
– Mari-Lou A
Mar 4 '15 at 20:00




Usually I go for a pee. And sometimes I need to wee. I never leak... but if I laugh hard, I'd say "I've wet myself"
– Mari-Lou A
Mar 4 '15 at 20:00










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Using the phrase is unladylike.



Semantically, it means the same thing (regardless of gender); but historically is only used by males due to its vulgar undertones.



Therefore, excluding the affiliated taboo, there's nothing wrong with a woman using the phrase.






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  • And the taboo applies somewhat to men as well, since it's fairly vulgar for them to say as well. Nobody, regardless of gender, would want to use the phrase in a professional setting, for example.
    – Nicole
    Mar 3 '15 at 15:33










  • Yeah, the proper term is "urgent haircut".
    – Hot Licks
    Mar 3 '15 at 15:53






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    It could be used by or about a woman to make a point. It seems more taboo for women to talk about urinating than for men, so a woman using crass slang to describe her act of urinating breaks two taboos.
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    Mar 4 '15 at 14:44










  • @Nicole In my experience, this is the standard way for a man to say that they need to use the restroom. I use it all the time, whether I'm at the office, at home, or out in public. I don't think I've ever had anyone comment on the 'vulgarity' of the phrase or take any kind of exception to it.
    – DCShannon
    Mar 4 '15 at 19:44










  • @DCShannon In the office where I work, I've never heard anyone phrase it any other way than "needing to use the restroom."
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    Mar 4 '15 at 19:58


















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Are women allowed to "take a leak" ?



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take a leak tv: to urinate. (Crude. Often objectionable. Usually in reference to a male. Leak is the mildest and piss is the strongest.) "I gotta go take a leak. Back in a minute."; "We stopped at a rest area so old Harry could take a piss." See, the Free Dictionary, Idioms and Phrases “take a leak” definition from, McGraw-Hill's Dictionary of American Slang and Colloquial Expressions.




In comment I noted, with amusement: We "leak", too. But we only use the expression among those who won't be judgmental. But, after returning to the page and noting the ‘state of play,’ I’ve decided to respond in answer-form.



The idiom may be considered “vulgar”, but I believe that can only be in a linguistic sense, as in definition 2, below. While the definition of the idiom in discussion, noted above, marks the expression as, “crude”, consider the alternatives, for either gender.



Men routinely employ this expression without self-consciousness or peer censure. Beyond, “Fellas, I got to go to the men’s room”, in my experience “take a leak” [manly and earthy] is more popular than, “excuse me for a moment, gentlemen, but I must urinate” [formal but effete] or “Dudes, I’ll be right back. I gotta take a piss”, [generally crude]; while, “Hey fellas, I gotta powder my nose”, is just completely off the table! [pejoratively effeminate].



For women, aka, the “fairer sex”, who are socialized to be linguistically (if not morally) prudish and self-censorious, the options are more tenuous. Beyond, “Excuse me, but I need to visit the ladies room” [formal] or “Be right back girls, I need to go to the bathroom” [minimally formal], we are left with, "Excuse me, but I must powder my nose” [if we happen to be socialites or Hollywood starlets].



I believe that the American culture (I cannot speak to other cultures), in general, has been pervaded by a native puritanical sensibility, wherein references to bodily functions are never socially acceptable and must be negotiated with euphemistic terminology, the more abstract, the less vulgar and acceptable.



Personally, among my family & friends (i.e., the people I love & who love me) such an expression is acceptable and not considered crude or vulgar. Among others, I tend to be more circumspect (i.e., I "tinkle.")




Vulgar adjective



1. marked by lack of taste, culture, delicacy, manners, etc: vulgar behaviour; vulgar language.



2. (Linguistics) (often capital; usually prenominal) denoting a form of a language, esp of Latin, current among common people, esp. at a period when the formal language is archaic and not in general spoken. see, Collins English Dictionary "vulgar"







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    My personal opinion is it's high time we stopped differentiating between male and female behaviour, and most certainly should drop the term 'ladylike'. Men are men and women are women, and I feel 100% free, as a woman, to use any expression I care to when needing to empty my bladder - the only constraint is whether I'm likely to offend the people around me by using some of the coarser expressions, and there are many that I have used whenever I felt like it (within the aforementioned constraint), including the usually-considered-masculine 'slash'. And I'd add I definitely sweat...



    If you don't feel comfortable using such an expression, then refrain - it's all down to what you as a person (rather than female) feel comfortable with. If it helps, I give you full permission to say it!






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      @bamboo: I would remind you that OP is asking and this site is about English language usage, not your opinion and philosophy. (Not my downvote, but if Eva upvoted, then someone else did vote down)
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    • Yes, I upvoted, but you're right @ThePopMachine, while I agree with the sentiments expressed, the answer would benefit from an upgrade i.e., with some online research, quotations, citations, and links. Why not have a go at that, bamboo?
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    • @bamboo: I don't disagree either. But this is not a discussion forum. I fully realize that in this instance whatever I say will look sexist.
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    • @ThePopMachine - I know, I just had to make the statement - but the proffered 'answer' to the question is really contained in the penultimate sentence, that is, say it if you're comfortable with it as a person, not otherwise.
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    I know a woman that routinely says “gotta take a piss” or gotta take a leak. It’s unladylike but it seems kinda funny for a woman to say. Maybe she dares to be different and expresses herself a little different.






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      Using the phrase is unladylike.



      Semantically, it means the same thing (regardless of gender); but historically is only used by males due to its vulgar undertones.



      Therefore, excluding the affiliated taboo, there's nothing wrong with a woman using the phrase.






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      • And the taboo applies somewhat to men as well, since it's fairly vulgar for them to say as well. Nobody, regardless of gender, would want to use the phrase in a professional setting, for example.
        – Nicole
        Mar 3 '15 at 15:33










      • Yeah, the proper term is "urgent haircut".
        – Hot Licks
        Mar 3 '15 at 15:53






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        It could be used by or about a woman to make a point. It seems more taboo for women to talk about urinating than for men, so a woman using crass slang to describe her act of urinating breaks two taboos.
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        Mar 4 '15 at 14:44










      • @Nicole In my experience, this is the standard way for a man to say that they need to use the restroom. I use it all the time, whether I'm at the office, at home, or out in public. I don't think I've ever had anyone comment on the 'vulgarity' of the phrase or take any kind of exception to it.
        – DCShannon
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      • @DCShannon In the office where I work, I've never heard anyone phrase it any other way than "needing to use the restroom."
        – Nicole
        Mar 4 '15 at 19:58















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      Using the phrase is unladylike.



      Semantically, it means the same thing (regardless of gender); but historically is only used by males due to its vulgar undertones.



      Therefore, excluding the affiliated taboo, there's nothing wrong with a woman using the phrase.






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      • And the taboo applies somewhat to men as well, since it's fairly vulgar for them to say as well. Nobody, regardless of gender, would want to use the phrase in a professional setting, for example.
        – Nicole
        Mar 3 '15 at 15:33










      • Yeah, the proper term is "urgent haircut".
        – Hot Licks
        Mar 3 '15 at 15:53






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        It could be used by or about a woman to make a point. It seems more taboo for women to talk about urinating than for men, so a woman using crass slang to describe her act of urinating breaks two taboos.
        – shadowtalker
        Mar 4 '15 at 14:44










      • @Nicole In my experience, this is the standard way for a man to say that they need to use the restroom. I use it all the time, whether I'm at the office, at home, or out in public. I don't think I've ever had anyone comment on the 'vulgarity' of the phrase or take any kind of exception to it.
        – DCShannon
        Mar 4 '15 at 19:44










      • @DCShannon In the office where I work, I've never heard anyone phrase it any other way than "needing to use the restroom."
        – Nicole
        Mar 4 '15 at 19:58













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      Using the phrase is unladylike.



      Semantically, it means the same thing (regardless of gender); but historically is only used by males due to its vulgar undertones.



      Therefore, excluding the affiliated taboo, there's nothing wrong with a woman using the phrase.






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      Using the phrase is unladylike.



      Semantically, it means the same thing (regardless of gender); but historically is only used by males due to its vulgar undertones.



      Therefore, excluding the affiliated taboo, there's nothing wrong with a woman using the phrase.







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      • And the taboo applies somewhat to men as well, since it's fairly vulgar for them to say as well. Nobody, regardless of gender, would want to use the phrase in a professional setting, for example.
        – Nicole
        Mar 3 '15 at 15:33










      • Yeah, the proper term is "urgent haircut".
        – Hot Licks
        Mar 3 '15 at 15:53






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        It could be used by or about a woman to make a point. It seems more taboo for women to talk about urinating than for men, so a woman using crass slang to describe her act of urinating breaks two taboos.
        – shadowtalker
        Mar 4 '15 at 14:44










      • @Nicole In my experience, this is the standard way for a man to say that they need to use the restroom. I use it all the time, whether I'm at the office, at home, or out in public. I don't think I've ever had anyone comment on the 'vulgarity' of the phrase or take any kind of exception to it.
        – DCShannon
        Mar 4 '15 at 19:44










      • @DCShannon In the office where I work, I've never heard anyone phrase it any other way than "needing to use the restroom."
        – Nicole
        Mar 4 '15 at 19:58


















      • And the taboo applies somewhat to men as well, since it's fairly vulgar for them to say as well. Nobody, regardless of gender, would want to use the phrase in a professional setting, for example.
        – Nicole
        Mar 3 '15 at 15:33










      • Yeah, the proper term is "urgent haircut".
        – Hot Licks
        Mar 3 '15 at 15:53






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        It could be used by or about a woman to make a point. It seems more taboo for women to talk about urinating than for men, so a woman using crass slang to describe her act of urinating breaks two taboos.
        – shadowtalker
        Mar 4 '15 at 14:44










      • @Nicole In my experience, this is the standard way for a man to say that they need to use the restroom. I use it all the time, whether I'm at the office, at home, or out in public. I don't think I've ever had anyone comment on the 'vulgarity' of the phrase or take any kind of exception to it.
        – DCShannon
        Mar 4 '15 at 19:44










      • @DCShannon In the office where I work, I've never heard anyone phrase it any other way than "needing to use the restroom."
        – Nicole
        Mar 4 '15 at 19:58
















      And the taboo applies somewhat to men as well, since it's fairly vulgar for them to say as well. Nobody, regardless of gender, would want to use the phrase in a professional setting, for example.
      – Nicole
      Mar 3 '15 at 15:33




      And the taboo applies somewhat to men as well, since it's fairly vulgar for them to say as well. Nobody, regardless of gender, would want to use the phrase in a professional setting, for example.
      – Nicole
      Mar 3 '15 at 15:33












      Yeah, the proper term is "urgent haircut".
      – Hot Licks
      Mar 3 '15 at 15:53




      Yeah, the proper term is "urgent haircut".
      – Hot Licks
      Mar 3 '15 at 15:53




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      It could be used by or about a woman to make a point. It seems more taboo for women to talk about urinating than for men, so a woman using crass slang to describe her act of urinating breaks two taboos.
      – shadowtalker
      Mar 4 '15 at 14:44




      It could be used by or about a woman to make a point. It seems more taboo for women to talk about urinating than for men, so a woman using crass slang to describe her act of urinating breaks two taboos.
      – shadowtalker
      Mar 4 '15 at 14:44












      @Nicole In my experience, this is the standard way for a man to say that they need to use the restroom. I use it all the time, whether I'm at the office, at home, or out in public. I don't think I've ever had anyone comment on the 'vulgarity' of the phrase or take any kind of exception to it.
      – DCShannon
      Mar 4 '15 at 19:44




      @Nicole In my experience, this is the standard way for a man to say that they need to use the restroom. I use it all the time, whether I'm at the office, at home, or out in public. I don't think I've ever had anyone comment on the 'vulgarity' of the phrase or take any kind of exception to it.
      – DCShannon
      Mar 4 '15 at 19:44












      @DCShannon In the office where I work, I've never heard anyone phrase it any other way than "needing to use the restroom."
      – Nicole
      Mar 4 '15 at 19:58




      @DCShannon In the office where I work, I've never heard anyone phrase it any other way than "needing to use the restroom."
      – Nicole
      Mar 4 '15 at 19:58












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      Are women allowed to "take a leak" ?



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      take a leak tv: to urinate. (Crude. Often objectionable. Usually in reference to a male. Leak is the mildest and piss is the strongest.) "I gotta go take a leak. Back in a minute."; "We stopped at a rest area so old Harry could take a piss." See, the Free Dictionary, Idioms and Phrases “take a leak” definition from, McGraw-Hill's Dictionary of American Slang and Colloquial Expressions.




      In comment I noted, with amusement: We "leak", too. But we only use the expression among those who won't be judgmental. But, after returning to the page and noting the ‘state of play,’ I’ve decided to respond in answer-form.



      The idiom may be considered “vulgar”, but I believe that can only be in a linguistic sense, as in definition 2, below. While the definition of the idiom in discussion, noted above, marks the expression as, “crude”, consider the alternatives, for either gender.



      Men routinely employ this expression without self-consciousness or peer censure. Beyond, “Fellas, I got to go to the men’s room”, in my experience “take a leak” [manly and earthy] is more popular than, “excuse me for a moment, gentlemen, but I must urinate” [formal but effete] or “Dudes, I’ll be right back. I gotta take a piss”, [generally crude]; while, “Hey fellas, I gotta powder my nose”, is just completely off the table! [pejoratively effeminate].



      For women, aka, the “fairer sex”, who are socialized to be linguistically (if not morally) prudish and self-censorious, the options are more tenuous. Beyond, “Excuse me, but I need to visit the ladies room” [formal] or “Be right back girls, I need to go to the bathroom” [minimally formal], we are left with, "Excuse me, but I must powder my nose” [if we happen to be socialites or Hollywood starlets].



      I believe that the American culture (I cannot speak to other cultures), in general, has been pervaded by a native puritanical sensibility, wherein references to bodily functions are never socially acceptable and must be negotiated with euphemistic terminology, the more abstract, the less vulgar and acceptable.



      Personally, among my family & friends (i.e., the people I love & who love me) such an expression is acceptable and not considered crude or vulgar. Among others, I tend to be more circumspect (i.e., I "tinkle.")




      Vulgar adjective



      1. marked by lack of taste, culture, delicacy, manners, etc: vulgar behaviour; vulgar language.



      2. (Linguistics) (often capital; usually prenominal) denoting a form of a language, esp of Latin, current among common people, esp. at a period when the formal language is archaic and not in general spoken. see, Collins English Dictionary "vulgar"







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        Are women allowed to "take a leak" ?



        enter image description here




        take a leak tv: to urinate. (Crude. Often objectionable. Usually in reference to a male. Leak is the mildest and piss is the strongest.) "I gotta go take a leak. Back in a minute."; "We stopped at a rest area so old Harry could take a piss." See, the Free Dictionary, Idioms and Phrases “take a leak” definition from, McGraw-Hill's Dictionary of American Slang and Colloquial Expressions.




        In comment I noted, with amusement: We "leak", too. But we only use the expression among those who won't be judgmental. But, after returning to the page and noting the ‘state of play,’ I’ve decided to respond in answer-form.



        The idiom may be considered “vulgar”, but I believe that can only be in a linguistic sense, as in definition 2, below. While the definition of the idiom in discussion, noted above, marks the expression as, “crude”, consider the alternatives, for either gender.



        Men routinely employ this expression without self-consciousness or peer censure. Beyond, “Fellas, I got to go to the men’s room”, in my experience “take a leak” [manly and earthy] is more popular than, “excuse me for a moment, gentlemen, but I must urinate” [formal but effete] or “Dudes, I’ll be right back. I gotta take a piss”, [generally crude]; while, “Hey fellas, I gotta powder my nose”, is just completely off the table! [pejoratively effeminate].



        For women, aka, the “fairer sex”, who are socialized to be linguistically (if not morally) prudish and self-censorious, the options are more tenuous. Beyond, “Excuse me, but I need to visit the ladies room” [formal] or “Be right back girls, I need to go to the bathroom” [minimally formal], we are left with, "Excuse me, but I must powder my nose” [if we happen to be socialites or Hollywood starlets].



        I believe that the American culture (I cannot speak to other cultures), in general, has been pervaded by a native puritanical sensibility, wherein references to bodily functions are never socially acceptable and must be negotiated with euphemistic terminology, the more abstract, the less vulgar and acceptable.



        Personally, among my family & friends (i.e., the people I love & who love me) such an expression is acceptable and not considered crude or vulgar. Among others, I tend to be more circumspect (i.e., I "tinkle.")




        Vulgar adjective



        1. marked by lack of taste, culture, delicacy, manners, etc: vulgar behaviour; vulgar language.



        2. (Linguistics) (often capital; usually prenominal) denoting a form of a language, esp of Latin, current among common people, esp. at a period when the formal language is archaic and not in general spoken. see, Collins English Dictionary "vulgar"







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          Are women allowed to "take a leak" ?



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          take a leak tv: to urinate. (Crude. Often objectionable. Usually in reference to a male. Leak is the mildest and piss is the strongest.) "I gotta go take a leak. Back in a minute."; "We stopped at a rest area so old Harry could take a piss." See, the Free Dictionary, Idioms and Phrases “take a leak” definition from, McGraw-Hill's Dictionary of American Slang and Colloquial Expressions.




          In comment I noted, with amusement: We "leak", too. But we only use the expression among those who won't be judgmental. But, after returning to the page and noting the ‘state of play,’ I’ve decided to respond in answer-form.



          The idiom may be considered “vulgar”, but I believe that can only be in a linguistic sense, as in definition 2, below. While the definition of the idiom in discussion, noted above, marks the expression as, “crude”, consider the alternatives, for either gender.



          Men routinely employ this expression without self-consciousness or peer censure. Beyond, “Fellas, I got to go to the men’s room”, in my experience “take a leak” [manly and earthy] is more popular than, “excuse me for a moment, gentlemen, but I must urinate” [formal but effete] or “Dudes, I’ll be right back. I gotta take a piss”, [generally crude]; while, “Hey fellas, I gotta powder my nose”, is just completely off the table! [pejoratively effeminate].



          For women, aka, the “fairer sex”, who are socialized to be linguistically (if not morally) prudish and self-censorious, the options are more tenuous. Beyond, “Excuse me, but I need to visit the ladies room” [formal] or “Be right back girls, I need to go to the bathroom” [minimally formal], we are left with, "Excuse me, but I must powder my nose” [if we happen to be socialites or Hollywood starlets].



          I believe that the American culture (I cannot speak to other cultures), in general, has been pervaded by a native puritanical sensibility, wherein references to bodily functions are never socially acceptable and must be negotiated with euphemistic terminology, the more abstract, the less vulgar and acceptable.



          Personally, among my family & friends (i.e., the people I love & who love me) such an expression is acceptable and not considered crude or vulgar. Among others, I tend to be more circumspect (i.e., I "tinkle.")




          Vulgar adjective



          1. marked by lack of taste, culture, delicacy, manners, etc: vulgar behaviour; vulgar language.



          2. (Linguistics) (often capital; usually prenominal) denoting a form of a language, esp of Latin, current among common people, esp. at a period when the formal language is archaic and not in general spoken. see, Collins English Dictionary "vulgar"







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          Are women allowed to "take a leak" ?



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          take a leak tv: to urinate. (Crude. Often objectionable. Usually in reference to a male. Leak is the mildest and piss is the strongest.) "I gotta go take a leak. Back in a minute."; "We stopped at a rest area so old Harry could take a piss." See, the Free Dictionary, Idioms and Phrases “take a leak” definition from, McGraw-Hill's Dictionary of American Slang and Colloquial Expressions.




          In comment I noted, with amusement: We "leak", too. But we only use the expression among those who won't be judgmental. But, after returning to the page and noting the ‘state of play,’ I’ve decided to respond in answer-form.



          The idiom may be considered “vulgar”, but I believe that can only be in a linguistic sense, as in definition 2, below. While the definition of the idiom in discussion, noted above, marks the expression as, “crude”, consider the alternatives, for either gender.



          Men routinely employ this expression without self-consciousness or peer censure. Beyond, “Fellas, I got to go to the men’s room”, in my experience “take a leak” [manly and earthy] is more popular than, “excuse me for a moment, gentlemen, but I must urinate” [formal but effete] or “Dudes, I’ll be right back. I gotta take a piss”, [generally crude]; while, “Hey fellas, I gotta powder my nose”, is just completely off the table! [pejoratively effeminate].



          For women, aka, the “fairer sex”, who are socialized to be linguistically (if not morally) prudish and self-censorious, the options are more tenuous. Beyond, “Excuse me, but I need to visit the ladies room” [formal] or “Be right back girls, I need to go to the bathroom” [minimally formal], we are left with, "Excuse me, but I must powder my nose” [if we happen to be socialites or Hollywood starlets].



          I believe that the American culture (I cannot speak to other cultures), in general, has been pervaded by a native puritanical sensibility, wherein references to bodily functions are never socially acceptable and must be negotiated with euphemistic terminology, the more abstract, the less vulgar and acceptable.



          Personally, among my family & friends (i.e., the people I love & who love me) such an expression is acceptable and not considered crude or vulgar. Among others, I tend to be more circumspect (i.e., I "tinkle.")




          Vulgar adjective



          1. marked by lack of taste, culture, delicacy, manners, etc: vulgar behaviour; vulgar language.



          2. (Linguistics) (often capital; usually prenominal) denoting a form of a language, esp of Latin, current among common people, esp. at a period when the formal language is archaic and not in general spoken. see, Collins English Dictionary "vulgar"








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              My personal opinion is it's high time we stopped differentiating between male and female behaviour, and most certainly should drop the term 'ladylike'. Men are men and women are women, and I feel 100% free, as a woman, to use any expression I care to when needing to empty my bladder - the only constraint is whether I'm likely to offend the people around me by using some of the coarser expressions, and there are many that I have used whenever I felt like it (within the aforementioned constraint), including the usually-considered-masculine 'slash'. And I'd add I definitely sweat...



              If you don't feel comfortable using such an expression, then refrain - it's all down to what you as a person (rather than female) feel comfortable with. If it helps, I give you full permission to say it!






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                @bamboo: I would remind you that OP is asking and this site is about English language usage, not your opinion and philosophy. (Not my downvote, but if Eva upvoted, then someone else did vote down)
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              • Yes, I upvoted, but you're right @ThePopMachine, while I agree with the sentiments expressed, the answer would benefit from an upgrade i.e., with some online research, quotations, citations, and links. Why not have a go at that, bamboo?
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              • @bamboo: I don't disagree either. But this is not a discussion forum. I fully realize that in this instance whatever I say will look sexist.
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              • @ThePopMachine - I know, I just had to make the statement - but the proffered 'answer' to the question is really contained in the penultimate sentence, that is, say it if you're comfortable with it as a person, not otherwise.
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              My personal opinion is it's high time we stopped differentiating between male and female behaviour, and most certainly should drop the term 'ladylike'. Men are men and women are women, and I feel 100% free, as a woman, to use any expression I care to when needing to empty my bladder - the only constraint is whether I'm likely to offend the people around me by using some of the coarser expressions, and there are many that I have used whenever I felt like it (within the aforementioned constraint), including the usually-considered-masculine 'slash'. And I'd add I definitely sweat...



              If you don't feel comfortable using such an expression, then refrain - it's all down to what you as a person (rather than female) feel comfortable with. If it helps, I give you full permission to say it!






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                @bamboo: I would remind you that OP is asking and this site is about English language usage, not your opinion and philosophy. (Not my downvote, but if Eva upvoted, then someone else did vote down)
                – ThePopMachine
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              • Yes, I upvoted, but you're right @ThePopMachine, while I agree with the sentiments expressed, the answer would benefit from an upgrade i.e., with some online research, quotations, citations, and links. Why not have a go at that, bamboo?
                – user98990
                Mar 4 '15 at 20:31












              • @bamboo: I don't disagree either. But this is not a discussion forum. I fully realize that in this instance whatever I say will look sexist.
                – ThePopMachine
                Mar 5 '15 at 0:11










              • @ThePopMachine - I know, I just had to make the statement - but the proffered 'answer' to the question is really contained in the penultimate sentence, that is, say it if you're comfortable with it as a person, not otherwise.
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              My personal opinion is it's high time we stopped differentiating between male and female behaviour, and most certainly should drop the term 'ladylike'. Men are men and women are women, and I feel 100% free, as a woman, to use any expression I care to when needing to empty my bladder - the only constraint is whether I'm likely to offend the people around me by using some of the coarser expressions, and there are many that I have used whenever I felt like it (within the aforementioned constraint), including the usually-considered-masculine 'slash'. And I'd add I definitely sweat...



              If you don't feel comfortable using such an expression, then refrain - it's all down to what you as a person (rather than female) feel comfortable with. If it helps, I give you full permission to say it!






              share|improve this answer














              My personal opinion is it's high time we stopped differentiating between male and female behaviour, and most certainly should drop the term 'ladylike'. Men are men and women are women, and I feel 100% free, as a woman, to use any expression I care to when needing to empty my bladder - the only constraint is whether I'm likely to offend the people around me by using some of the coarser expressions, and there are many that I have used whenever I felt like it (within the aforementioned constraint), including the usually-considered-masculine 'slash'. And I'd add I definitely sweat...



              If you don't feel comfortable using such an expression, then refrain - it's all down to what you as a person (rather than female) feel comfortable with. If it helps, I give you full permission to say it!







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                @bamboo: I would remind you that OP is asking and this site is about English language usage, not your opinion and philosophy. (Not my downvote, but if Eva upvoted, then someone else did vote down)
                – ThePopMachine
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              • Yes, I upvoted, but you're right @ThePopMachine, while I agree with the sentiments expressed, the answer would benefit from an upgrade i.e., with some online research, quotations, citations, and links. Why not have a go at that, bamboo?
                – user98990
                Mar 4 '15 at 20:31












              • @bamboo: I don't disagree either. But this is not a discussion forum. I fully realize that in this instance whatever I say will look sexist.
                – ThePopMachine
                Mar 5 '15 at 0:11










              • @ThePopMachine - I know, I just had to make the statement - but the proffered 'answer' to the question is really contained in the penultimate sentence, that is, say it if you're comfortable with it as a person, not otherwise.
                – bamboo
                Mar 5 '15 at 12:50














              • 1




                @bamboo: I would remind you that OP is asking and this site is about English language usage, not your opinion and philosophy. (Not my downvote, but if Eva upvoted, then someone else did vote down)
                – ThePopMachine
                Mar 4 '15 at 17:31










              • Yes, I upvoted, but you're right @ThePopMachine, while I agree with the sentiments expressed, the answer would benefit from an upgrade i.e., with some online research, quotations, citations, and links. Why not have a go at that, bamboo?
                – user98990
                Mar 4 '15 at 20:31












              • @bamboo: I don't disagree either. But this is not a discussion forum. I fully realize that in this instance whatever I say will look sexist.
                – ThePopMachine
                Mar 5 '15 at 0:11










              • @ThePopMachine - I know, I just had to make the statement - but the proffered 'answer' to the question is really contained in the penultimate sentence, that is, say it if you're comfortable with it as a person, not otherwise.
                – bamboo
                Mar 5 '15 at 12:50








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              @bamboo: I would remind you that OP is asking and this site is about English language usage, not your opinion and philosophy. (Not my downvote, but if Eva upvoted, then someone else did vote down)
              – ThePopMachine
              Mar 4 '15 at 17:31




              @bamboo: I would remind you that OP is asking and this site is about English language usage, not your opinion and philosophy. (Not my downvote, but if Eva upvoted, then someone else did vote down)
              – ThePopMachine
              Mar 4 '15 at 17:31












              Yes, I upvoted, but you're right @ThePopMachine, while I agree with the sentiments expressed, the answer would benefit from an upgrade i.e., with some online research, quotations, citations, and links. Why not have a go at that, bamboo?
              – user98990
              Mar 4 '15 at 20:31






              Yes, I upvoted, but you're right @ThePopMachine, while I agree with the sentiments expressed, the answer would benefit from an upgrade i.e., with some online research, quotations, citations, and links. Why not have a go at that, bamboo?
              – user98990
              Mar 4 '15 at 20:31














              @bamboo: I don't disagree either. But this is not a discussion forum. I fully realize that in this instance whatever I say will look sexist.
              – ThePopMachine
              Mar 5 '15 at 0:11




              @bamboo: I don't disagree either. But this is not a discussion forum. I fully realize that in this instance whatever I say will look sexist.
              – ThePopMachine
              Mar 5 '15 at 0:11












              @ThePopMachine - I know, I just had to make the statement - but the proffered 'answer' to the question is really contained in the penultimate sentence, that is, say it if you're comfortable with it as a person, not otherwise.
              – bamboo
              Mar 5 '15 at 12:50




              @ThePopMachine - I know, I just had to make the statement - but the proffered 'answer' to the question is really contained in the penultimate sentence, that is, say it if you're comfortable with it as a person, not otherwise.
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