What's this idiom or proverb? Please help!





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You want to give a criticism to someone, but you cannot because you’re not close to them, but you give that criticism to someone else and hope the other person understands.”



I will explain more so you guys can help. So let’s say you’re 3 people sitting on a table. This X person and you are close friends. You are not that close to the other Y person. You are indoors but Y starts smoking and you hate the smoke. X takes a puff from Y’s cigarette and you tell X how wrong it is to smoke indoors (and hope Y would understand and put out the cigarette).



Do you have a idiom for this?



Thank you in advance for your help.










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You want to give a criticism to someone, but you cannot because you’re not close to them, but you give that criticism to someone else and hope the other person understands.”



I will explain more so you guys can help. So let’s say you’re 3 people sitting on a table. This X person and you are close friends. You are not that close to the other Y person. You are indoors but Y starts smoking and you hate the smoke. X takes a puff from Y’s cigarette and you tell X how wrong it is to smoke indoors (and hope Y would understand and put out the cigarette).



Do you have a idiom for this?



Thank you in advance for your help.










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  • I switched your X and Y placement because I think they were vice versa by mistake. They can be switched back if I misunderstood somehow.

    – KannE
    yesterday








  • 1





    Yes, i didn’t realize. thank you!

    – Ezgi
    yesterday











  • So you are indirectly making a request? A related concept is "dropping a hint."

    – user888379
    yesterday











  • I think this is a good question, but generally speaking, you should show some research effort when asking a question in order to elicit better responses.

    – KannE
    yesterday











  • There really ought to be a saying in English along the lines of "lecturing Peter to instruct Paul"—but I can't think of one.

    – Sven Yargs
    yesterday














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You want to give a criticism to someone, but you cannot because you’re not close to them, but you give that criticism to someone else and hope the other person understands.”



I will explain more so you guys can help. So let’s say you’re 3 people sitting on a table. This X person and you are close friends. You are not that close to the other Y person. You are indoors but Y starts smoking and you hate the smoke. X takes a puff from Y’s cigarette and you tell X how wrong it is to smoke indoors (and hope Y would understand and put out the cigarette).



Do you have a idiom for this?



Thank you in advance for your help.










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You want to give a criticism to someone, but you cannot because you’re not close to them, but you give that criticism to someone else and hope the other person understands.”



I will explain more so you guys can help. So let’s say you’re 3 people sitting on a table. This X person and you are close friends. You are not that close to the other Y person. You are indoors but Y starts smoking and you hate the smoke. X takes a puff from Y’s cigarette and you tell X how wrong it is to smoke indoors (and hope Y would understand and put out the cigarette).



Do you have a idiom for this?



Thank you in advance for your help.







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  • I switched your X and Y placement because I think they were vice versa by mistake. They can be switched back if I misunderstood somehow.

    – KannE
    yesterday








  • 1





    Yes, i didn’t realize. thank you!

    – Ezgi
    yesterday











  • So you are indirectly making a request? A related concept is "dropping a hint."

    – user888379
    yesterday











  • I think this is a good question, but generally speaking, you should show some research effort when asking a question in order to elicit better responses.

    – KannE
    yesterday











  • There really ought to be a saying in English along the lines of "lecturing Peter to instruct Paul"—but I can't think of one.

    – Sven Yargs
    yesterday



















  • I switched your X and Y placement because I think they were vice versa by mistake. They can be switched back if I misunderstood somehow.

    – KannE
    yesterday








  • 1





    Yes, i didn’t realize. thank you!

    – Ezgi
    yesterday











  • So you are indirectly making a request? A related concept is "dropping a hint."

    – user888379
    yesterday











  • I think this is a good question, but generally speaking, you should show some research effort when asking a question in order to elicit better responses.

    – KannE
    yesterday











  • There really ought to be a saying in English along the lines of "lecturing Peter to instruct Paul"—but I can't think of one.

    – Sven Yargs
    yesterday

















I switched your X and Y placement because I think they were vice versa by mistake. They can be switched back if I misunderstood somehow.

– KannE
yesterday







I switched your X and Y placement because I think they were vice versa by mistake. They can be switched back if I misunderstood somehow.

– KannE
yesterday






1




1





Yes, i didn’t realize. thank you!

– Ezgi
yesterday





Yes, i didn’t realize. thank you!

– Ezgi
yesterday













So you are indirectly making a request? A related concept is "dropping a hint."

– user888379
yesterday





So you are indirectly making a request? A related concept is "dropping a hint."

– user888379
yesterday













I think this is a good question, but generally speaking, you should show some research effort when asking a question in order to elicit better responses.

– KannE
yesterday





I think this is a good question, but generally speaking, you should show some research effort when asking a question in order to elicit better responses.

– KannE
yesterday













There really ought to be a saying in English along the lines of "lecturing Peter to instruct Paul"—but I can't think of one.

– Sven Yargs
yesterday





There really ought to be a saying in English along the lines of "lecturing Peter to instruct Paul"—but I can't think of one.

– Sven Yargs
yesterday










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